First post of 2017? WOW!

I’m just checking in to give some insight as to why I’ve been MIA for so long.  First I’m working on moving to another host.  95 percent of what I’ve had up here does not breach any terms of agreement, but if I could move somewhere that I’m completely free in what I want to post, then that’s where I want to be.  This has made it a bit of a deterrent to post at the rate I’ve been up to this point.  However, I have not finished the transition as quickly as I’d like, and it’s become too comfortable to just keep putting everything off.  That changes starting tonight with this post.  The transfer of material is quick and easy to execute, so there is no reason to worry about posting, and then transferring later.  As far as when I will be completely finished with the transition, I’m not sure yet.  My goal is to be finished by the end of this month.  I’m also not sure how much down time(if any) will result from this.  I’ve learned a lot in the year plus, I’ve been blogging, but I’m still very new, and still learning a lot of the basics.

Even though business is slow at the moment, I have taken the time to remain busy and catch up on some things that are almost impossible to when things are busy.  Also been taking on some new things in my free time.  I’m trying to learn Spanish, and by 2018 I hope to at least be able to hold my own.  The more people I can communicate with the better, both with business, and otherwise.  I’ve recently become highly addicted to Final Fantasy 15 which has been in the works since 2006.  Not the greatest of the series, but I’ve definitely put my share of hours into it.

On a more serious note, I was recently involved in a car accident.  Luckily it only involved my car, and a metal fence, and I wasn’t hurt.  But the damage to the passenger side was immense, and may not be worth fixing.

So off the top of my head, those are the events that have lead to my disappearance for almost a month.  I will follow this up with something spanking related VERY soon!

Been a Rough Week +

For starters, I run a line from my office to my apartment to get internet.  Some asshole decided to cut it.  I know it was done on purpose because it was too clean to have been done by scraping against something.  Haven’t taken the time to run a new ethernet wire yet.

On top of that, some other scumbag(or possibly the same one) stole my rear license plate.  Obviously, another very annoying hassle.






Just wanted to share, and give some insight as to why I haven’t been posting as often.  More spanking on it’s way shortly.


So last night I was attacked verbally, and falsely accused yet again.  Words like “threat” and “Stealing” thrown around like crazy.  The attacks are fine.  The way this idiot goes about it is comical.  Does it in a social media setting in which he knows people will swarm and grab onto his fat ass, and gang up.  But that’s the way he and one of his close friends goes about it.  Everything is round about.  Everything is cowardly.  Lies and deceit are not below these people.

I suggest getting a dictionary and looking up the word threat.  Stating how much pleasure would be brought to you if a certain event happened, is NOT threatening to do it.  It’s called being honest.  Another foreign concept to this moron.

And I’ll voice my opinion about someone anytime I want, with or without that fat ass’s permission.

I also want to remind the idiot who was the first to start with the personal attacks and stick his ass in the middle of the situation.  If you’re going to dish it out, you should be prepared to take it as well.

Has It Really Been A Year?

Wow, doesn’t feel like it’s been that long.  At the time I started this blog I was going through a very rough time.  Still not fully recovered, but this blog has been extremely helpful.  It’s been great having a place to talk about a subject in which I had never spoken about before.  Always kept everything to myself.

I love the hell out of this blogging thing, and I plan on continuing to post my many thoughts, photo, gifs, etc.  And to those of you who follow, I wanted to say Thank You!

More Cops Ambushed: Why Can’t Everyone See How Senseless This All Is?

I have to take a break from spanking material and talk about all this senseless hate, on both sides.  Cops getting killed does hit home with me, because I know so many people and have a lot of friends who are cops.  I just told one of my best and most loyal friends to get the hell out of the city, and work somewhere safer.  We both have our fingers crossed something comes along soon.

Like every profession there are some bad apples in the police force.  The good citizens in the force should denounce those who use their power for evil and hopefully force them into some other career or even put them behind bars.  The BLM should denounce those members who do nothing but cause trouble, declare their hate for whites and the police, and incite violence.  There needs to be effort on both sides.  Peace will only come along if there is some effort from both sides.  Isn’t that effort worth stopping all this bloodshed, and lives and families being ruined?

Back In The Empire State



Got in late Thursday night and I was exhausted.  There is nothing like the first night back in my own bed.  GLORIOUS.  It’s nice to be back, and I feel energized.

I will get into more detail about my time away soon.  Things are going to be crazy through the 4th with work.

I’ve found when things are swirling around in my mind, blogging helps.  As you all know this latest trip included a lot of spanking, and meeting up with many in the scene.  It’s been almost a year now since I had a very unceremonious fallout with someone in the scene(well not really in the scene anymore, but I’m willing to bet still discretely making money partaking in some play).  It still stings but this person’s true colors are what they are.

The fallout is a little confusing.  Obviously the close friends of the fake, two faced, fraud are not going to think much of me.  But I sensed negative vibes from friends of friends, friends of friends of friends, and in some cases friends of friends of friends of friends.  I say this confuses me, because I have never done anything to any of these people personally.  With that said, the nice people I met, and the warm welcoming I felt from many, and the great play, more than made up for that other stuff.

So it’s great to be back.  Barring something unforseen the frequent posting and updating is also back!

Some Bad Luck Lately

I  don’t have an appointment regarding my eyes until August.  In the mean time, my vision without my glasses just continues to deteriorate.  I was able to function and even cleared to drive without my glasses, but I’m not sure that would be the case anymore.   And the appointment in August  isn’t even for a procedure.  It’s just a consultation.

My grandmother is in the hospital(my only living grandparent).  Problems breathing, and she’s 87.  Reasons to be nervous for sure.

Just the other day someone smashed my rear car window on the left side.  Strangely the asshole who did it didn’t take anything just made a mess.  Wonder wtf the person was looking for.


Muhammad Ali

I’m not a boxing fan, but it’s hard not to understand the greatness of Ali, no matter what you think of him personally.  This has to be the greatest celebrity eulogy I have ever heard.  Billy Crystal’s delivery is PERFECT.

“He taught us that life is best when you build bridges between people not walls”

                                                        -Billy Crystal